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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 15:36

How does one succeed in life?

That's it for today.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do guys look up TikTok girls instead of porn? My boyfriend of two years, looks up big boobs on TikTok. He has never once cheated on me, not on social media or IRL. He claims it’s to “get off real quick if I’m not home.”

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Procrastinates a lot.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What happens if a parent refuses to let their child be transgender? What happens if the parent tries their hardest not to allow their child to be trans, like flushing every bottle of their trans child's HRT down the toilet?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

What made you feel satisfied about your life today?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.